Well it's been 1 week since the birth of Joslyn and all is well. I wanted to share with all of you my point of view of the birth and the last week at home with Mom and baby.
It was Saturday night around 10:30pm when Kate's water broke. I was pretty calm considering all the anxiety I had felt over the last 9 months. We packed up the car and headed to the hospital. We arrived at the hospital and were checked into our room by 11:30pm. The nurse said because Kate's water had broke that if she could not go naturally they would have to induce. Of course they were going to give her 24 hours before they would induce.
Kate and I were a little concerned because we had been practicing our Hypnobirthing and were excited to put it to use. Maybe excited is the wrong word to use. I was a little worried about being able to use hypnosis on Kate, especially in front of the nurses coming and going. I had my scripts prepared and at bedside and I read them to Kate. These scripts help Kate enter hypnosis and manage her discomfort. I repeat my scripts and she also used her ipod to listen to a couple of other scripts. But generally speaking, they say the hypnosis helps you delivery your baby faster and with less discomfort. In fact during one of our practice sessions a few weeks earlier I tried a test with Kate while she was in hypnosis. The test was that as we went along I told her I was tying large helium filled balloons to her wrist. The balloons lifted her wrist to where she could not keep her arm on the chair. Slowly her arm raised up in the air until I started to cut the balloons one by one. After the practice session Kate told me she was alert to what I was telling her but no matter how hard she tried she could not lower her arm until I told her I was cutting them one by one. At this point I was pretty much convinced that this could work.
Needless to say, I believe the hypnosis worked because when we arrived at the hospital at 11:30 Kate was 2cm dilated and by 4:15am she was 10cm and ready to push. I think the nurse was caught a little off guard by this. We'd asked the nurse to not inform us what Kate's dilation was, so we had no idea how far she along she was already when she said she felt the need to push. The next thing you know it's 4:45am and our midwife has arrived and has given the ok to push. Half an hour later Joslyn was making her first appearance.
She is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen and I shed the first of many tears. Joslyn spent the next hour on Kate's tummy for skin to skin contact and her first breast feeding before they took her away to be given the once over. At this time she was handed to me and I held my baby girl for the first time. Again more tears, alot more tears. It was simply overwhelming the love I felt for Joslyn and Kate at that moment.
The last week has been just a wonderful blur. Kate is starting to feel a lot better and Joslyn seems to be following a little bit of a schedule. Hopefully she will maintain this schedule! I am looking forward to sharing all the wonderful things Joslyn and I will do.
As always thanks for all the support and thanks for reading!
